Are Your Limiting Beliefs Holding You Back ?

I got to admit, for years, I used to hold back on doing the things my heart tells me to do. I dreamed of doing many stuff but was too afraid to move out of my comfort zone. My fear has led me to come up with numerous excuses. Most of my excuses are pretty lame excuses. Honestly, I was scared that I was not good enough, not qualified enough, not capable enough. I had self imposed limiting beliefs about
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How to Tackle Big Challenges

Recently, a client came to seek help in finding a solution to an overwhelming challenges in her life. The challenges that she is facing had developed over many years and now, like some of us today, she is looking for a quick fix – unfortunately, this was not possible. Often in our busy lives, we tends to ignore some of our challenges rather than dealing with them as they arise. The problem with this is many times these issues never
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What Is Your Why ?

“You do what is easy, your life will be hard. If you do what is hard, your life will be easy.” – Les Brown “Get clear on this : What is an extraordinary life on your own terms today? At this stage of life, where you are, where you want to go, it’s about how can I find the gift I have to give the world and how can I give it in a way that truly adds value.” –
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Five Ways to Find Greater Happiness and Peace of Mind.

Recently, I met up with a close friend, a client and a relative on separate occasions and they have a common issue, they shared about their disappointments, pain and setbacks at their work places. Often it was caused by people at work rather than their job itself. I understand and can relate to their situations. I had my disappointments, failures and setbacks too. The truth is, if you find a path with no obstacles, it is most likely a path
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You are a Masterpiece

(Story of Paul Smith) We need to focus on the blessings not the burden. What we focus on we magnify and enlarge. In our mind, if we keep focusing on problem, we are simply making it bigger. You may have something that are limiting you, an outdated beliefs, your past conditionings that are not serving you. Or you may feel as thou you are ‘handicap’ because of your lack of education, lack of experience or that your age is holding
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Your Biggest Breakdown Can be Your Biggest Breakthrough -Oyster Story

Sometimes, on our journey in life, we will be faced with circumstances that we cannot avoid. Sometimes, we will need to do things that we are not very comfortable in doing. No matter how bad things are, know that this too shall pass. Let me share with you the story of the oyster. This story inspired me to press on when I’m faced with challenges and set backs. Do you know how oyster produce a pearl? An oyster in a
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3 Simple Ways to Develop Charisma

It has been said that when Bill Clinton speaks to you, he makes you feel that you are the only person on the planet. This is the trait of a charismatic people. They genuinely and instinctively focus their eyes,ears and senses on your being. It’s all about you not them. They make you feel heard, they make you feel special and they make you feel that they are interested in what you have to say. It may not be the
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How to Handle Challenges

Most of us when face a problem, we may easily allow anxiety to take control . We may feel nervous, overwhelmed and frustrated. However, our challenges and disappointments can take us all to the path of discovery, strength and greatness. Here are simple suggestions to look at things in a positive perspectives:   Be Thankful. We tends to think about what is missing and ignore what we have. When we develop an attitude of gratitude, we begin to view things from
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Why we should focus on the positive

  I personally feel that life is what you make it. You cannot change the cards life has dealt you, but you can determine the way you will play them. A beautiful friend shared a short video about focusing on the good and not on the negative. This is what it says “The world will not always appreciate the good that you do but will put you down for the one mistake that you make, rise above the criticism and
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